The family has three graves in St Leonard’s Churchyard. The first is for Jane Gardner-Waterman, her grandson Alan and Alan’s wife, Maud.
Inscription: To the glory of God/and in/loving memory of/Jane Clark Gardner-Waterman/who died on the 11th April 1891/aged 71 years
Also of her grandson/Lt. Col. Alan Gardner-Waterman/who died 12th October 1953 aged 71
Also of his wife Maud/at rest 17th January 1978
The second is for Jane’s daughter-in-law, Mary Gardner-Waterman and her parents:
In/loving memory of/Henry Cobb Wildash/died 20th April 1890/aged 70 years
And of his wife/Rosa Neame Wildash/died 22nd Oct. 1898 aged76 years
Also of their daughter/Mary Elizabeth Gardner-Waterman/ died illegible 1947 aged 86 years
The third, pictured next to Mary’s grave is for two others of Jane’s grandchildren who died as children:
Inscription In loving memory/Brian, aged 5 months, / died 24th October 1889/ Marjorie, aged 2 years, /died 3rd January 1890/children of William & Mary Gardner-Waterman
Jane Clark Gardner-Waterman nee Waterman was born at Willesborough near Ashford in Kent and was baptised there on 17 August 1817. She was the daughter of John Waterman, a Royal Navy Commander, and his wife Jane. She married Sladden Gardner, ten years her junior, in 1851, but he died two years later, leaving her with two sons, one born posthumously. The first was named Waterman, the second William. Some years later she began to add her maiden name, to which she seems to have been very attached, to her married name to produce ‘Gardner-Waterman.’ This conferred on her elder son the name Waterman Gardner-Waterman. He went to Cambridge, then took holy orders and became the Rector of Bicknow with Hucking in the Romney Marsh and later Vicar of Loose. He and his wife had a daughter, Hilda.
William was articled to a solicitor and on qualifying married Mary Elizabeth, ‘May’ Wildash, daughter of a Hythe doctor on 2 June 1881 at St Leonard’s church, Hythe. She was the only child of Henry Cobb Wildash and Rosa Neame Wildash, and had been born in Hythe and baptised there on 20 September 1858. The couple lived at Luton House in Hythe.
The year after her marriage May gave birth to her first child, Alan. He was followed by two more children, Marjorie, who was baptised on 24 February 1884 and died in January 1889, and Brian who was baptised on 18 June 1885 and died aged five months. William died at Davos Platz, Switzerland on 22 June 1889. It was a favoured destination for the sick and ailing and recommended by doctors to patients with lung disease, as its air was especially pure. It is likely that William suffered from TB. He is commemorated in a mosaic vignette on the pulpit of St Leonard’s Church. As a widow, May moved back into her parents’ house with Alan, and her mother-in-law also moved to Hythe, living at Bank House at what is now 93 High Street. May is commemorated by a stained glass window in St Edmund’s Chapel in the Church.
The mosaic vignette in memory of William Gardner-Waterman on the pulpit of St Leonard’s Church
William had left his family well provided for, to the tune of over £7000, and Alan attended the Sutherland House School in Folkestone as a boarder from the age of eight and was then educated at Uppingham School, from 1896-1899, and at the Royal Military Academy, Woolwich. In 1900 he received a commission in the Royal Field Artillery. He served in India as subaltern and captain, and while there married Elsie Lue Dowling on 22 March 1915.She died in London in 1917. Alan served in France in the First World War, during which he was wounded twice. He volunteered to return to India for the Afghan War and remained there until 1925, being promoted to Major and Lieutenant-Colonel. During this time, probably about 1920, when their engagement was announced in Hythe, he was married to Maud. He retired in 1933, but was appointed Regional Commander of the Local Defence Volunteers for the North Riding of Yorkshire, where he was living, in 1940. . His Kashmiri Diaries are held by Cambridge University. He died at Fleet, in Hampshire.
Maud Gardner-Waterman nee Evangeline Maud Manderville was born on 13 July 1882, the daughter of Henry Ambrose Mandeville of Anner Castle Clonmel Ireland. and died in Hythe 1978